by Mathew Hudson | Relationships
One of the most dangerous things we can do to our beliefs is to become an intimate friend with someone those beliefs exclude. Once we get to know the humanity of a person initially regarded as too different from ourselves—learning of their needs, hopes, fears, and...
by Mathew Hudson | Relationships
Photo by Lina Trochez on Unsplash Regarding how you interact with others, what is a characteristic or trait about yourself that you highly value? How about your kindness? Or dedication to fulfilling a promise? Your honesty? Your acceptance? Now imagine a person that...
by Mathew Hudson | Relationships
Let’s imagine two people (a couple perhaps) in a relationship. They have had a negative experience with each other recently, one that could be called a conflict, which revealed that they have a big difference between them in how they have interpreted and...
by Mathew Hudson | Relationships
One of my clients brought up the topic of vulnerability and trust between people at work. He described how he felt pressured by his superior to be more vulnerable in the confrontation than the other was willing to be. As I processed our conversation later, I had some...
